I recommend this sequence:
1. Run your hands over her breasts (through her clothes).
2. Run your hands over her ass (through her clothes).
3. Pull her shirt up just enough to expose her stomach a tiny bit, an then start touching it very gently and slowly... also touch her back where it’s exposed. Remember what I said about slow, gentle touching.
4. Stop once in awhile. Create anticipation.
5. Next, take off her shirt. Don’t immediately go for the breasts! Don’t do it! Gently touch every part of her that’s exposed (I’m assuming that she still has her bra on). Kiss her shoulders... and her back. Add generous portions of light slow touching and mini-tasting.
6. If the “I’m getting really hot” signals keep coming from her, now touch and kiss her breasts gently through her bra. If this goes over well, then take it off and kiss some more. Remember, slow, gentle... and stop for anticipation breaks.
7. Next comes the pants. You may have to take shoes and/or socks off first. Slow and deliberate. Don’t act like you’ve been in prison for the last five years and this is your first time with a woman.
8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing, smelling, tasting, gentle slow touching... and add touching around the edges of her underwear. Women like to have the skin around the edges of clothing and underclothing touched (usually). Slowly and deliberately.
9. Finally, reach down and touch her gently between her legs. She might resist this (or any of the previous advances). If she does, just stop and go back to building anticipation. If you do this a few more times, she’ll usually get turned on to the point where she wants you
to continue.
10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men in the world, I have to say “If she says “STOP” or pushes you away, then stop. Never force a woman to do anything. It’s dumb, wrong, and illegal.”
So that’s it for the ‘transition.’ Now you’re ready for the real deal.
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