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Contraception

The ovulation testing pack

is a completely new method of natural family planning that allows you to enjoy making love without using any contraceptives on most days of your cycle. The pack includes a personal monitor that checks your urine samples and analyses them to indicate the days of the month on which you are likely to get pregnant. You should use contraceptives if you wish to make love on those days. The pack is 93-95 per cent reliable and very easy to use.

Natural family planning,

by contrast, requires meticulous record keeping and iron self-discipline. It involves charting your temperature day by day throughout the menstrual cycle to discover the period of ovulation, during which you must abstain from sex. Any unpredictable irregularity in the cycle can carry the risk of pregnancy.

The Pill is up to 99 per cent reliable.

It allows for completely spontaneous lovemaking. The freedom it gives is of enormous psychological benefit in any relationship. The Pill also regulates the menstrual cycle and reduces period pain and heavy bleeding in many women. Mild side effects occur in some women who take the Pill, but they usually disappear after a few months. They may include nausea, headaches, and depression, weight gain and some bleeding between periods. If side effects persist, the doctor or clinic will usually recommend a change of contraception.Before your doctor prescribes the Pill, he or she will ask for your medical history, including incidence of thrombosis in your family. The health risks involved in taking the Pill are slight when compared to the risks of pregnancy and childbirth.

The combined Pill

Contains synthetic forms of the sex hormones estrogen and progesterone, which interfere with the woman's regular 28day menstrual cycle. In a woman who is not taking the Pill, production of the sex hormones fluctuates during the cycle, and it is this fluctuation that triggers ovulation. When the Pill keeps the hormone level artificially constant, the signal to ovulate is cancelled out. The same happens during pregnancy, which is why overlapping pregnancies do not occur. Anyone who smokes heavily may be at risk of thrombosis, smokers and those who are over 35 are often advised not to take the combined Pill.

The progestogen – only Pill

is not, as sometimes assumed, a low dose Pill, but one containing a single hormone, progestogen. It has the effect of thickening the secretions in the cervix, which makes it difficult for sperm to pass. It can be taken by breast feeding mothers, unlike the combined Pill, which suppresses lactation.

The condom

is 85-98 per cent effective as a method of contraception. Condoms work by preventing the sperm from getting to its destination, and they do not interfere with the body's chemistry. The condom is also the key to safe sex as it protects against all sexually transmitted diseases. For more details about condoms and how to use them, see page 128.

Caps and diaphragms

Act as a contraceptive by forming a barrier across the neck of the womb (cervix), which prevents the sperm from reaching and fertilizing the egg. A good fit is crucial. You need to be examined by your doctor or family planning clinic so that the right-sized cap or diaphragm can be chosen, and you can be shown how to insert it. A cap or diaphragm should always be used with a spermicide. This combination has been found to be a 95 per cent safe contraceptive. Smear a little spermicide on to the diaphragm and around the rim, to facilitate insertion. Squeeze the diaphragm into a boat shape and insert it as you would a sanitary tampon, opening the lips of the vagina with one hand. When the rim rests behind the pubic bone at the front and the dome covers the cervix at the back, it is in place. Doctors recommend that you should not leave the diaphragm or cap in place for longer than 24 hours, but you should wait for at least six hours after intercourse before removing it. Remember that spermicide will be effective only for about three hours, so you will need to put more into the vagina if you have intercourse after the diaphragm or cap has been in place for that length of time. When you remove the diaphragm or cap, wash it carefully in warm soapy water and allow it to dry in a warm place, or pat gently with a towel.

The female condom

is as effective as other barrier methods. It lines the vagina and has an inner ring that sits over the cervix and an outer ring that lies flat against the labia. The female condom is made of colorless odorless polyurethane. The woman pushes the condom up inside her vagina before intercourse, and afterwards removes it and disposes of it. Like the male condom, the female condom is not reusable. It comes ready lubricated for easy insertion and no spermicide is necessary. Female condoms are made in one size only and will fit all women. During intercourse, it is a good idea for the woman to guide the man's penis into the condom to make sure it does not enter the vagina outside the condom. As the female condom is loose fitting, it will move during sex, but you will still be protected, because the penis stays inside the condom. To remove the condom after sex, simply twist the outer ring to keep the semen inside, and pull the condom out gently.

The I U D

(intra-uterine device) or coil is a small plastic and copper device that is inserted into the womb to prevent conception. Only a doctor trained in family planning can do this. The IUD comes compressed in a thin tube, which is slid through the cervical canal into the uterus and then withdrawn, leaving the IUD to spring into shape. Thin threads hang from the IUD about 3cm/ 1 inch into the vagina, and these can be felt with the fingers to make sure that the device is still in place. To remove an IUD, the doctor pulls the strings with a specially designed instrument. Depending on type, IUDs are usually replaced about every five years. The IUD is reckoned to be 96-99 per cent effective as a contraceptive, although it is not clear exactly how it works. Many women like it because it allows both partners to be spontaneous in their lovemaking. However, it does not suit everyone. Some women experience discomfort and bleeding for a few hours or days after the IUD is inserted, and one in four women have to have it removed because of acute pain and heavy bleeding. Sometimes an IUD may fall out; this is more likely to happen during a period than at any other time, and this is why it is important to check regularly that the thin strings are still inside the vagina.

Contraceptive injections

may be given with a drug that contains hormones of the progestogen type. An injection is needed every 8-12 weeks and is a virtually 100 per cent reliable contraceptive. However, it often has a disruptive effect on a woman's menstrual cycle, making periods more frequent or even disappear altogether. Return of regular periods may be delayed for up to a year after the last injection.

Contraceptive implants

release a hormone into the bloodstream. The implants are small, stick-like and pliable, and are inserted under the skin of the inner upper arm by your doctor or clinic in a simple, almost pain free procedure. They cannot be seen. The effects will last for up to five years, and although the implants can be removed at any time, the body will not be free of the hormone for a short time afterwards. Implants are more than 99 per cent reliable, although they may make periods less regular or disappear altogether. These side effects may settle down after several months.

Emergency contraception

is also called the 'morning-after Pill'. This last-resort method can be used if intercourse has taken place without contraception or if the usual method has failed, say in the event of a burst condom. It may also be prescribed to a woman after a sexual assault. It can be given up to 72 hours after intercourse and is 96-99 per cent effective.

The danger of AIDS, young people

Often had sex with a new partner without a condom, particularly if they had been drinking. It is important to remember that AIDS is much more dangerous to your health than pregnancy, and unlike pregnancy, there is no way that the disease can be terminated.

The message is clear:

anyone who engages in casual sex or is having sex with a new partner should use a condom even if contraceptive protection is provided by the Pill. Women as well as men are recommended to carry condoms with them.

Clean bodies

are generally more appealing than dirty ones, though the smell of a lover's sweat can have aphrodisiac qualities. Bathing is not always practicable or desirable, but you should always wash the genitals and anus before sex, to protect against infection, to increase the enjoyment of your partner and to give self confidence. Soap and water are all that is needed. Deodorants and perfumes kill the body's delightful natural scents, and they also taste unpleasant. Vaginal deodorants can be positively harmful, destroying the micro-organisms in the vagina that protect against disease. Always wash anything that is inserted in the anus, as anal sex carries the highest risk of infection.

WHAT IF!

Ugaling gumamit ng “What If” sa mga banat sa babae.

Style para masabi ang gustong gawin sa babae.

Kung sa palagay mo ay tagilid ka sa gusto mong maging chiks.. At ayaw mong mabusted, o mapahiya,

eto ang sagot.

Ex. “What if manligaw ako? Okey lang ba?”

***kung ang sagot nya ay OO, ayos yun!

Pero kung ang sagot nya ay Hindi,etc….

eto ang sabihin mo:

“Okey lang yun.. What if lang naman eh..”

Kung gusto mong umiscore at nagdadalawang isip ka at baka magalit?

Gumamit ng “What if”!!

Ex. “What if halikan kita bigla.. magagalit ka ba?”

“What if yayain kita mag-out of town, tayong dalawa lang, 3days 2nights, papayag ka?”

***Same principle din sa iba pang sitwasyon..

Tandaan, may mga babae na 1st move lang ang inaantay para mapagbigyan ka.

At, walang mangyayari kung walang gagawin.(source:babaeromoves)

PARA LANG YANG UNDERWEAR! WALANG MAGYAYARI PAG DI MO BINABABA.

6 Things You DIDN’T Know About Semen

• Women Can Be Allergic To Semen

Yes, you read that right. About 5% of women are actually allergic to semen, making having sex (and possibly getting pregnant) a little bit more difficult for them than the average woman. Fortunately though, the allergic reactions aren’t usually severe and may just be more uncomfortable for the woman than anything else. Women who are allergic to sperm can avoid reactions by using a condom during intercourse. Even women with latex allergies can use polyurethane condoms. Since an allergic reaction to sperm probably isn’t going to be that severe, precautions that are taken are more for the woman’s comfort than anything else.

• Giving Head Can Make A Woman’s Pregnancy Easier

Believe it or not, if a woman gives her partner oral sex (and presumably swallows) regularly before getting pregnant by her partner, she will have an easier pregnancy and less problems with high blood pressure, pre-eclampsia and eclampsia. This is because her body has been given plenty of time to get used to the foreign DNA in the man’s sperm, so the mother’s body is less likely to reject the pregnancy!

• It Can Make A Woman Feel Happier

There’s a reason that women feel elated after having sex with their partners, and it’s not always because he gave her an incredible, earth shaking orgasm. In fact, just the simple deposit of semen into her vaginal canal can boost a girl’s mood and make her feel happier and have a greater sense of well being. This is due to the variety of hormones that are present in ejaculatory fluid, including testosterone, estrogen, prolactin and lots of different prostaglandins. A study at the University Of New York showed that women in relationships where condoms were always used were more likely to suffer from depression and anxiety than women in relationships where condoms were never used. Notably, women in abstinent relationships scored the highest on the scale as being the most likely to suffer from mood problems. Of course, make sure that you are with a monogamous partner and you’ve both been tested for and are clear of STD’s before deciding to go condom-free!

• A Man Will Never Run Out Of Ejaculatory Fluid

No matter how often a man has sex or masturbates, he will never run out of ejaculatory fluid. Studies have shown that a man only requires fifteen minutes (and in some cases less) to completely re-up his supply of sperm after ejaculating. This further proves that men are able to experience multiple orgasms! Men are less likely to ejaculate again during the second orgasm, however, it is possible since a man can completely replenish his ejaculatory fluid in very little time.

• Semen Can Promote Tooth Decay

There are components in ejaculatory fluid that attract acid-loving bacteria and after fellatio, these bacteria can hang out in your mouth and go to work on your gums and teeth. This can promote cavities, tooth decay and gum disease, but don’t stress out too much about it. Giving your man head isn’t going to cause you to have dentures anytime soon. Just simply make sure you brush your teeth or rinse your mouth with a good mouthwash after you’re finished. But let’s face it – that’s probably already something you do after fellatio anyways.

• Ejaculatory Fluid Is Nutritious

You might have heard that ejaculatory fluid has a lot of protein in it, but it also packs quite a punch with other vitamins as well. Here’s a breakdown of how just one teaspoon of semen can be considered a super food. It’s low in fat at only 5-7 calories per serving! Has about as much Vitamin C as an entire orange Contains calcium, magnesium, potassium, vitamin B12 and zinc So should you just start giving your partner more oral sex instead of taking your vitamins? Probably not – unless you want to start drinking it by the glass.(source:ask dan and jennifer)

Sexual Knowledge Questionnaire

1.____ Penis size is the most important factor in pleasing your partner.
2. ____ Real men are always interested and ready to perform sexually.
3.____ Th e best sex happens when you are single; committed sex squelches good sex.
4.____ All men are potential rapists.
5.____ Perfect sexual performance is the most important factor in satisfying your partner.
6.____ Women control men with sex. It’s just the way it is.
7.____ Women expect to be fucked hard, but don’t honestly say it.
8.____ Th e Internet is the best source for accurate sexual information.
9.____ Sex is such a basic physical need, men should be able to perform perfectly regardless of their level of physical conditioning, lifestyle, or age.
10.____ What men most want and need in a relationship is sex.
11.____ Men will do or say anything to get sex.
12.____ Men inevitably think with their penis.
13. ____ Sex is natural and requires no learning, management, or regulation.
14.____ Sex requires an erection because sex equals intercourse.
15.____ Men need a lot of sex; lack of sex causes major physical problems.
16.____ It is the man’s responsibility to give his partner an orgasm each time.
17.____ The man leads sex: “Men are supposed to run the sex show.”
18.____ Sex equals performance and performance is what counts.
19.____ Real men have penises that are “two feet long, hard as steel, and able to go all night.”
20.____ Men can’t control their sex drives.
21.____ Men should never view women as sex objects.
You can score this yourself to see how knowledgeable you are, and you don’t have to tell anyone your score. ^___^

The Cunnilingus

(From the movie Young People Fucking)
The arousal of a woman with your mouth and tongue-cunnilingus is one of the most useful sexual variations known to man and is certainly one of the most stimulating experiences known to woman. Your tongue and mouth are very versatile. The can suck, moisten, and use varied caresses. You can use cunnilingus as a way of making sure that your partner is satisfied, as a way of arousing your woman before intercourse, or as a substitute for intercourse.

How can I tell if she's having an orgasm?

She will first feel her orgasm in the lover section of her pussy. The pussy will begin to contract rapidly and her anal muscles will contract involuntarily. Her urethra muscles go to though the same spasm. During your partner's orgasm, her nipples will remain erect. Immediately after orgasm, her pussy will become very juicy(YUM-YUM) with lubricant. The nipples gradually soften and the vulva loses its swelling.

Teasing

A woman wants self control as a lover. Bringing her slowly to what she wants sexually is the key to all female pleasure. Be patient and wait until she is delirious craving and begging for you. ^_^ Woman love it when a man takes time to get to the point and just simply delays for a while. Until a woman's desire is intense, she enjoys being touched non-directly. For example, before a man should touch her breasts, he first should circle them for a while, getting closer and closer. Instead of just touching a woman in her most sensitive places, a woman wants to be teased or led up to the place where she is longing ti be touched. You need to remember and focus on delaying direct stimulation to increase a woman's pleasure. You should never touch a woman between the legs until you are sure she is wet. A skillful male will first stimulate a woman's least sensitive areas first, defined above. The best way to tease a woman is by giving a little and then backing up to start all over again.

What is Foreplay?

Foreplay is anything before the act of intercourse that gets you excited. It takes women a lot longer than men to get aroused. A woman needs a lot of kissing caressing, and caring words. Wherever you begin, make sure it's comfortable and private. You want no interruption. :)

How to last long in bed (men)

Not all guys are naturally skilled in controlling their ejaculation some have issues in Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation (source Wikipedia). Here are some of natural way to prolong and control your ejaculation.

• Use the method Stop and go. If you feel like you are cumming that soon, just take a moment to subside the climax.
• The Distraction Method = In order to last longer you should use your mind to control your climax, you'll probably think another thing aside from sex in order to distract your attention and help to relax your body. Example for distraction is counting every time you enter to her Queendome. (Your brain is very POWERFUL. stop thinking your orgasm!)
  
• The Squeeze Method = you can squeeze the tip of your dick if you feel like cumming.
• Sexercise =A Kegel is an exercise that helps tighten muscles responsible for ejaculatory control
• She's on TOP = It's proven, if she's in top your body is in a relax state so meaning you can control and prolong your ejaculation.
• Masturbate ahead = if you feel like having sex after 30 min. You should probably play along for a while to empty your shell LOL.
• Relax Bro's + have fun + Explore + foreplay = CLIMAX. \m/
  

Signs if she's into you

• Eye Contact = it is the most important to seduce ladies. According to a good friend of mine "sa mata makita ang muta" LOL..
• Frequent Touching = the softer the better.
• Focused On You = if she's interested she'll probably put all her attention to you.
• Smiling And Laughing = basically guys should be hilarious enough to make her date happy and comfortable.

Likas Banatero

Ang taong madalas tumingin sa 'yo at madalas kang kulitin ay parang UTANG SA BANGKO. May interes!

ang PAG-IBIG ay parang halaman sa loob ng bakuran , binakuran mo na nga pinipitas pa ng iba.

Buti pa ang Tanghali.............TAPAT

Height ko man ay bitin , abot langit naman kitang mamahalin

Ang pag-ibig parang KETCHUP .. Matamis,pero maraming nakikisawsaw..

Ano mas magandang pakuluan? LAGUNDI o MALANDI?

Hindi lahat ng relasyon nasisira sa 3rd party. Yung iba nasisira sa kaka party.

Para kang panahon, pabago bago.

mabuti pa ang TORPE , totoo ang nararamdaman kesa sa taong nagsasabing mahal ka pero di naman kayang panindigan.

Sabi ng Lalake: What is Beauty if Your Bra is Empty.

Piliin mo yung lalaking paiiyakin ka sa katatawa, hindi yung paiiyakin ka, saka tatawa

Pag wala kang magawa..Buksan ang zipper,Ipasok ang kamay sa loob at...Dukutin ang libro! Magbasa ka! Hindi kung ano ano ang naiisip mo!

Modem ka ba?Because I find a “connection” in you.

Ang Sorry para yang BAND-AID, kaya nyang takpan ang sugat pero alam mo sa sarili mo na kahit kelan hindi magagmot ng band-aid ang sugat

Kung wala kang maisip na iregalo sa CRUSH mo.Halikan mo na lang...tapos sabihin mo,"Kung ayaw mo, IBALIK MO NA LANG"

ang maghintay sa taong hindi ka kayang mahalin ay katumbas ng paghihintay na TUMAMIS ANG ASIN

Ang Taong di MAKUNTENTO sa isa…. pag tanda ay…. mag-isa

Akala ko noon, dagat lang ang lumalalim. Pati din pala feelings ko sa'yo ganun din.

aanhin ko ang kumot kung sayo pa lang nang-iinit na ako.

Kung ako ang caterpillar at ikaw ang dahon..Pwede ba kitang gapangin?At kagat-kagatin?

Ang buhay parang JERJER:kung gusto mo ng happy ending,wag ka mag-madali

Ang buhay pag walang kaibigan ay parang boobs na walang nipples.. Its pointless!

Glue ka ba? Kasi nakadikit ka sa isipan ko

Kung bulkan tong puso ko, malamang pag sumabog ito,Kakalat bawat letra ng pangalan mo.

ang girlfriend MINAMAHAL,hindi binibilang

ang para sayo, sayo lang.. ang para sa kanya, sa kanya lang... ang para sakin IKAW LANG!

akala mo maganda ka , SORRY MAPUTI KA LANG

Gusto kita hindi dahil gusto mo ko, Kundi dahil Gusto kita

Genie in a bottle ka ba? Sige nga, pahimas!

Mas magandang bigyan ng chance yung taong naghihintay sayo, kesa balikan yung taong kusang lumayo sayo.

Ang Babae Parang Cholesterol,Masama Pag Masyadong Marami.

AANHIN MO PA ANG PAA MO? kung hindi ka din lalakad sa altar na kasama ko!

hindi naman totoo ang sinasabi nila na bobo ako. May isip din naman ako at Ikaw lang lagi ang nandun.

Ang mga kaibigan ay parang lata...Maingay pero at least hindi plastik

Ang pride parang underware,kapag hindi mo ibinaba walang mangyayari

Kung patuloy mong babalikan ang nakaraan...edi sana nag major in history ka na lang

Walang lalaking MANYAK kung walang babaeng MALANDI.In shortang PAGMAMAHAL dapat samahan ng DELIKADESA…

mas mabuti nang tumawa ka ng tumawa ng walang dahilan,kaysa naman umiyak ka ng umiyak nang dahil sa kanya na akala mo kung sinong kawalan

Wag kang pasikat dyan, wala tayo sa Showtime!

Ang girlfriend ay parang abstract painting - kahit di mo maintindihan minsan, maganda parin tingnan.

Sabi nung isang studyante sa isang magandang prof STUDENT:Ma’am! May I go out…with you?

sabi mo treasure ka ng mga magulang mo so.. kelan ka nila ibabaon?

Para kang sembreak...Amboring mo eh..

Ang pag-ibig ko sayo ay parang tsinelas..Kasi san ka man pumunta,Handa akong matapakan,masugatan at madumihan.maingatan ka lamang

nung nakilala kita, dun ko lang nalaman ang sagot sa tanong ng NESCAFE.. "Para kanino ka bumabangon?"

Ang ingay mo ah!Pag ikaw di pa nanahimik tatakpan ko na yang bibig mo.. NG LABI KO

Violet-I lost my phone, di bale, I’ll VIOLET.

Opinion-Papasok ka sa pinto kung OPINION.

Continue-Kahapon, ang dami-dami nyo. Bat ngayon ang CONTINUE.

Dedicate-Pag ginamitan mo yan ng glue, for sure DEDICATE yan.

Kapag ang asukal nabasa,nalulusaw at maaaring mawala ang tamis. Parang TAO.Kahit gaano siya ka-sweet sayo,kapag pinaluha mo,NAGBABAGO

Ang girl, parang kape. Tinatapon pag di na hot.

alam mo para tayong pares ng sapatos, Hindi pwede ipares sa iba!

Yung hita mo parang mayonnaise. They are best when spread out!

masarap ang kiss lalo na kung parang SPAGHETTI....PABABA NG PABABA

Para kang allowance.Kasi namimiss kita ‘pag walang pasok

Ang taong gusto mo ay parang ice cream. Matutunaw yan ‘pag tinitigan mo lang.Kaya dapat habang maaga… dilaan mo na!

How to Read Body Language

Body Language Signals:

• Open arms:

o Energetically open and possibly feeling vulnerable

o A good way to show you are approachable, especially when combined with open palms

• Palms up/open hands:

o Defences down

o An open heart

• Palms on chest – When a person uses open palms that occasionally touch their chest, they are signalling honesty

• Outward, upward hand movements – This conveys an open and positive message

• Folded arms:

o A defence mechanism that shows the person is not open to what is being said or done

o May mean rejection

o Physically cold

o Stubborn in their outlook

• Hands closed – A closed heart

• Doodling – Bored

• Fist:

o Anger and to be avoided

o Physically cold

o Very tense

o Defiant or triumphant when held in air

• Feet under the chair – A sign of eagerness

• Looking around:

o Wants to get away

o Thinking about something else

o Bored with situation/conversation

• Stroking chin – evaluating

• Mirroring – This is evidence of two people getting on really well.

Each person copies the other’s body language, usually subtly.

Mirroring occurs with:

o Breathing

o Gestures

o Eye movement

o Leaning towards each other at the same time

o Crossed or uncrossed legs

o Speech pattern

o Arm movement, or no arm movement

o Emotive energy such as being excited, relaxed, etc.

Note: If you practice this with somebody the key is to be subtle and not be a copycat. There is a natural rhythm to the process, which is the key.

• Yawning:

o Bored

o Tired and that may have nothing to do with the situation/conversation

• Preening – This shows someone knows they are attractive For example, flicking or stroking their hair or adjusting a collar and/or a tie.

• Ear Tugging:

o Indecision

o Possible deception

• Puffing out chest – this has nothing to do with silicone implants. Men do this when demonstrating their attraction to someone.

• Nodding – The occasional nod from a listener to a speaker is a positive message. It is an indication they are listening and are interested.

• Too much nodding – This indicates the listener has lost interest and may be bored (Probably where the saying ‘nodding off to sleep’ came from.)

• Chopping hands down – This is an aggressive act, usually used to antagonist.

• Body space – Respect for the other person’s body space is crucial in gaining their trust. Stay at least one arm’s length away from them.

• Striding briskly:

o An outward display of confidence

o Anger

• Gentle leg shaking:

o The person is mildly stimulated

o May need to go to toilet

• Vigorous leg shaking:

o Reveals apprehension and nerves

o Desperate to go to the toilet

• On toes – Eagerness

• Clears throat:

o Anxiety

o Has a cough/sore throat

o Habit

• Pretends to kick imaginary things on ground - frustration

• Open feet – reflecting and giving attention.

• Flushed cheeks:

o Indicates interest in the other person

o Embarrassment (usually temporary)

• Dilated pupils:

o Interested in someone.

o Focussed

o High on drugs

• High blink rate:

o A person who has an interest in someone will have an increased blink rate.

o Nervousness

o Assessing

o Has an eye disorder

• Backwards moving:

o Rejecting

o Escaping

• Moving away – Sometimes there is no hidden meaning.

• Slumped posture:

o Bored

o Low self-esteem/confidence

• Legs entwined – A woman who is interested in someone will often

cross and uncross her legs when seated.

• Gazing – A woman will gaze long enough for someone to notice then will quickly look away. Her mouth may open and lips slightly wet.

• Low voice – When interested in someone a woman may speak in a low voice.

• Running hand along leg – sexually interested in the other person

• Running hands along legs:

o Really sexually interested in the other person

o Getting ready to leave

• Directly facing you with open stance – The person is interested and you have their attention.

• Drumming fingers:

o Impatient

o May be a drummer

• Open mouth:

o You have said something outrageous and their jaw has dropped in shock.

o The person has tried to interrupt the conversation to get a word in, but you haven’t paused.

o May be a sign of attraction

• Tilt of hips – Sign of attraction and a good flirting tool

• Finger pointing:

o Sign of assertiveness

o Sign of aggression

• Open legs – Receptive to the other person

• Staring:

o Defiance

o Sign of aggression

• Looks you in the eyes without staring – Confident, self-assured.

• Doesn’t look you in the eyes:

o Lack of confidence

o Is being deceptive

• Standing upright – reflects inner confidence and comfort level.

• Chewing fingernails – Nerves. The person is not feeling secure. If they swallow, there may not be enough calcium in their diet.

• Quick and animated arm and hand movements – Lying

Note: Many honest, passionate people also do this.

• Darting eyes – deception.

• Shifting eyes – At the very least may be a lack of confidence or at worst it is indication of a deception. Definitely means deception when

combined with a nose rub and ‘umms’ and ‘ahhs’.

• People tend to look down and to the left when lying.

• Running fingers through hair:

o Frustration

o Preening

Where are her erogenous (sensitive) zones?

Each body part is an erogenous zone, so treat it accordingly. Take it portion by portion. Rushing shows little confidence, so take it slow. Remember the best takes time. Pay Special attention to these sensitive areas: TOES, LIPS, LOWER BACK, GUMS. TEETH. TONGUE, NIPPLES, EARLOBES, EYEBROWS, BUTTOCKS, EARS, TEMPLE, INSIDE of THIGH.

When you get the signal, it’s time for you to act like a man and do something

I recommend this sequence:

1. Run your hands over her breasts (through her clothes).

2. Run your hands over her ass (through her clothes).

3. Pull her shirt up just enough to expose her stomach a tiny bit, an then start touching it very gently and slowly... also touch her back where it’s exposed. Remember what I said about slow, gentle touching.

4. Stop once in awhile. Create anticipation.

5. Next, take off her shirt. Don’t immediately go for the breasts! Don’t do it! Gently touch every part of her that’s exposed (I’m assuming that she still has her bra on). Kiss her shoulders... and her back. Add generous portions of light slow touching and mini-tasting.

6. If the “I’m getting really hot” signals keep coming from her, now touch and kiss her breasts gently through her bra. If this goes over well, then take it off and kiss some more. Remember, slow, gentle... and stop for anticipation breaks.

7. Next comes the pants. You may have to take shoes and/or socks off first. Slow and deliberate. Don’t act like you’ve been in prison for the last five years and this is your first time with a woman.

8. Once the pants are off, keep kissing, smelling, tasting, gentle slow touching... and add touching around the edges of her underwear. Women like to have the skin around the edges of clothing and underclothing touched (usually). Slowly and deliberately.

9. Finally, reach down and touch her gently between her legs. She might resist this (or any of the previous advances). If she does, just stop and go back to building anticipation. If you do this a few more times, she’ll usually get turned on to the point where she wants you

to continue.

10. For the sake of all the dumb-ass men in the world, I have to say “If she says “STOP” or pushes you away, then stop. Never force a woman to do anything. It’s dumb, wrong, and illegal.”

So that’s it for the ‘transition.’ Now you’re ready for the real deal.

How to Be a Good Boyfriend

1. Be honest. Being honest to your mate is very important, in a mature relationship, honesty is the best policy. Tell the truth even when it hurts! It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. No matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that you are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives you the same respect. If something doesn't suit them let them know, otherwise they will not trust your opinion. But make it sound like a compliment. Suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative. For example, if they ask you if you like something they are trying on (trying on, not already wearing at a party!) let them know that it might work, but you

think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great (insert their best feature here—a feature that both of you like, not just you). Also, if they ask you, "Do you think I'm beautiful?" answer them honestly, but not rudely. If you think they are pretty, then say so, but don't say " You are ugly."

2. Remember that girls are often raised to be much more emotionally oriented than men. However, remember that unless your mate suffers from physical ailments that affect their mood, the mood swings that appear to be random for you may very well have significant reasons that you're just unaware of. After all, your partner is an entire person, with a lifetime of experiences, associations and memories, and emotional expressions result from a combination of factors which they may or may not be aware of. The best thing you can do is not take it personally, and try to help them discover and understand why their mood has taken a turn for the worse.

3. Don't brush them off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. A lot of women have been taught that the only way to get attention when their partner is trying to ignore them is to act more emotional and be louder until the partner finally surrenders and pays attention to her, even if in annoyance. If people feel they're being given the cold treatment by people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially as it distinguishes them from you without giving an explanation for why this

disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky just because they wouldn't let you do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas you found it important. If you know that your mood might lead you to overreact, simply say "I'm feeling really irritated right now. Can we talk about this later after I cool off a bit?" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)

4. Communicate. Do not talk their ear off, however make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, they are made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature. Zone out everything around you when you're talking to them. If you ask them a question, ask them because you really want to know. For example, ask them what type of movies they enjoy, or about one of her favourites. If you know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what you thought of it, and make a guess at why they might have liked it. Even if you are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that you are interested enough to try. It's also a good thing to keep in mind that for a guy, it's better to listen than to talk. Girls enjoy it when

their mate respondes to their comment, but they really just like having someone to talk to who will listen. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting, it's listening. Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk.

5. Give gifts as a surprise. Anyone can buy a gift for a birthday, Christmas or an anniversary. Listen to them when you are out window shopping, and if there is something they like, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise them with it when they least expect it, for no reason at all. Or pick something up on your way home from work, and tell them you were thinking of them when you saw it. It doesn't have to be big or expensive--a book you know they will like, or a CD of their favorite band are ideal gifts.

6. Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub or go to a new part of town. Even if you both end up hating it, it's an experience you can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise them by doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and more personal. This includes anything from racing them to your walking destination, dancing without music, or even bringing them a tub of LEGO and encouraging their immediate use. You two should grow to be comfortable with each other, and doing things together without self-consciousness. Ideally, they should never feel stupid around you for wanting or doing a particular thing.

7. Compliment them sincerely. Find something particular and compliment them on it, but mean it. Don't just say, "You look nice". Say "That really makes your eyes flash", "Your hair cut really suits the shape of your face" or "That makes me want to kiss your neck" ...and then kiss their neck! The more specific you are, the more unique and appreciative the compliment.

8. Be a gentleman. Even the stuff that seems silly can make a great impression. Hold doors, pull out chairs, things like that. No matter what the media tells you they want, their heart will always go to the gentleman.

9. When your mate calls you or asks you to call them back, just do it. They probably only want to ask you about your night or talk to you about something real quick. If you don't call them back, they just might keep calling which will probably annoy you. So even if it's 4:30 in the morning and you suddenly remember when you get up to go pee, then call them; they'll like the fact that you did, even if they're asleep. Now if your mate calls you obsessively, that's your own problem to deal with!

10. If you plan a date, whether you're going somewhere fancy or just to the movies and you can't make it, again just tell them. Yes, they might be mad at you (more disappointed then anything), but you not calling for fear of their response will make them even more mad. BE A MAN! If you keep canceling though, yes we understand why they're mad.

11. Show some emotion sometimes. You don't necessarily want to be all over your mate or be a whiny baby but be open about when you're happy versus when you are sad. If you have something to be mad about, just tell them. The thing about girls? They love to talk about feelings (well most of them) and they're willing to listen. Your mate will not think any less of you if you show emotion; don't worry -- you're still a man!

12. Mates have a tendency to do favors, leave notes and gifts and just be all around sweet. Yes this can be embarrassing, but realize they just want to do something nice for you, so at least act like you appreciate it. Once in a while make an effort to surprise them. Not necessarily with diamonds and rubies or with 100 dollar meals and fancy gifts, but with just taking the time to do something small and unexpected for them. Give her dog a bath or change that light bulb that's been out for weeks.

13. No need to be all romantic, some of the sweetest memories will be the things that you say or where you went or what you buy them; sure that does stick in our memory but there are more important things!

14. Don't get jealous easily. You don't want your mate to freak out if you talk to another person, so don't freak out when they're talking to another guy; besides, you never know -- it could be a brother, uncle, cousin.

15. Don't judge them by her clothes or the way they look. They may not always feel like spending an hour plucking, tweezing, clipping this, applying that. Make sure they know they can relax and be themselves with you. Don't make them feel like they always have to look like a celestial being.

16. Take care of yourself! Women want to be with someone who can successfully balance their personal life with work or school. Nothing scares them away faster than someone they constantly need to remind to do laundry, take a shower, or get to work on time. It is okay to turn the volume down on the relationship occasionally to accomplish something that needs to get done... we understand! We admire your initiative and hard work.

Tips

• Be accommodating. If there is something they like to do, but you don't really like it, do it anyway, and don't complain. You will probably find that you enjoy doing the activity because you're with them.

• Most guys are unaware, but most people love guys with manners. Hold the door for them, pull out their seat, and offer to pay sometimes (though allow her to pay if they are insistent).

• Playing hard to get doesn't work for most guys. Tell the person you love that you do and keep reminding them.

• Most women have that time of the month. Be as supportive as you can because your mate might be grumpy and/or in pain but they want your love and you have to be there for them. Nonetheless, do not explicitly mention the time of the month to her - a woman hardly enjoys knowing that the world can tell.

• If they are agitated, be nice to them, and don't get ticked off. Remember, they are not actually mad at you, or annoyed at you. They are just going through a hard time. Just let it roll off of you, like water off a duck.

• Keep in mind: the road will be difficult. As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself, and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of team work.

• Make sure you're clean and looking good... People will notice if you put some thought into your appearance.

• Call her just to say you are thinking about her.

• Don't just do things on the weekend. Make dates for during the week too. Even if it's sitting on the couch watching t.v. She will appreciate that you want to spend time with her.

• If they ask, "Does this make me look fat," and it is not flattering to them, say: "I don't think it is as flattering to your beautiful body as ___" and suggest an alternative.

• Treat them like you normally do around your friends or else they will feel like you're embarrassed to date her.

• Cook her a delicious meal. Any man can pay cash for a dinner at a fancy restaurant but it takes a special man to cook a homemade meal from the heart to his sweetheart.

• Remember, friends and family can be a strong influence on someone's decisions, so make sure you

are honest, open and interested in them and don't criticize or make fun of them! It's the

quickest way to lose someone.

• If you travel, stay in touch with them so they know you haven't forgotten them.

• When they are mad at you, take them out of somewhere.

• If you are the jealous type, keep thinking to yourself: "When guys talk/look at my mate, they are admiring me and giving me props". This might help quell any jealousy outbursts you may have.

• Never use pick up lines. They are the sign of a jerk, and no one wants to date a jerk.

• Only say you love her if you really do. Never fake anything...it is not real, nor is it cool.

• Stick up for them! If someone is ragging on them emotionally, or definitely physically, be there! Get over there and even if they're a friend of yours defend her! Don't leave her feeling alone and upset.

• Most girls like a lot of those strange complements that guys think are cheesy, like "your eyes are like the starry night." To a guy that's like "What's that supposed to mean? they're black with little white specks in them?" But to most girls it's OH so romantic. But always remember, don't overdo it. It will totally turn them off.

• Girls like it when you make them blush after you say something flattering, but don't make her blush for the wrong reason! Sometimes, if you can see their cheeks turning too red and the situation gets a little awkward, you have said something wrong. Change the subject right away to something more casual. NEVER turn away and ignore her for the rest of the day.

• If you see your archenemy snogging someone, don't kiss your girlfriend a lot.

Warnings

• If you get caught in an awkward relationship-threatening situation, such as doing *something* with another without really meaning it that way, don't say "this isn't what you think" or "this isn't what it looks like". Very cliched. Hold her hand, they will pull away, then look them in the eyes and tell them you love them, and that they are the only one for you, and it really wasn't what it looked like, then explain.

• Never buy flowers for any other girl unless it's her mother/grandmother.

• Never cheat. It remains perfectly understandable that you'll have wandering eyes, but realize where your heart is and stick to that. One time will be enough to convince someone to dump you.

• Never hit your mate. Violence is unconditionally unjustified (and punishable by law in many countries). You can hit them teasingly; mates DO NOT like to be babied all the time and never be touched.

• Never over-do something. Switch things around a lot and you'll keep the excitement that builds a good relationship, though don't be too inconsistent.

• Never tell them they can not talk to their friends, even if they are guys. In fact, become friends with her friends. They will love you even more for that.

• Give them space. They have friends, too, and don't want to be smothered. See above point.

• Try not to give them reasons to be jealous. Understand how your actions might look to them.

• Do not push them to do anything physical with you. They will most likely let you know when they are ready.

• Any boy can wait until someone is ready to do something physical, it takes a man to be chaste even when they don't seem to mind. Don't wait for them to tell you to stop: Ask them. "Is this okay?" is all it takes to make the difference between being the best boyfriend in the world and doing something you both will regret.

• Don't be too careful! A mate will appreciate that you are considerate of their limits, but they'll also appreciate a little pushiness. Know them well enough to estimate what will and won't be okay, and if they stop you or says "no" more than once, it's a no. They'll also enjoy you being just a little rough. Pick her up, push her against a wall, pull her hair a little bit. They'll let you know if there's something they don't like.

• Never hold their family's actions against them. No one can help what their family does or says. You can share with them that it bothers you what someone might have done or said but leave it alone after that.

• Try your hardest to do your part of forgive and forget and let it be. No one likes to be reminded of their mistakes.

• Never forget their birthday or other events they will remember (e.g. Valentine's Day,). Saying "Happy birthday" does not cut it; some girls expect gifts for every holiday. If you do not get them something they will remember, but if you do it continually, they'll think you're cheap! Late is better than never. Cards are better than nothing!

• Never tell them about something you almost did for them and then ended up not doing for whatever reason. Like saying 'I thought about getting you this gift, but changed my mind' or 'I was going to take the day off work to spend it with you and then decided it was a bad idea'. They will not think you were thoughtful, they will think you decided they weren't worth it. This is worse than an oblivious boyfriend, because it shows you know how to be romantic and what to do, but don't find them valuable enough. These thoughts are definitely best kept to yourself.

• Go their way but people don't like guys who apologize and ask suggestions from them all the time. Sometimes it's just okay lead the way.

• Don't embarrass them. Most people, especially if they are teenagers, get embarrassed if you talk about undergarments and things like that. Remember, those sorts of things may be attractive to you, but to them they may be something they don't want to talk about. On the same idea, never tell a funny story about them without her consent, especially if they try to stop, you DO NOT CONTINUE. This will hurt their feelings, as it shows impressing your friends and making them laugh is more important to you than them not having to feel stupid.

• Don't try to be perfect, just try to be YOURSELF, and no one else. They'll love you for that. If they don't, then they're not worth your time.

• Don't compare them to your ex mate; it will make them feel inferior.

• Never cheat on her. This will make your relationship a lot easier

THE G-SPOT(GRAFENBERG SPOT)

QUESTIONS

WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?

The Grafenberg spot is an area on the anterior or front wall of the vagina,

between the opening and the cervix, which is often found to be extremely

sensitive to stimulation. It is hypothesized that the G-spot is either 1) a

bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or 2) a gland or series of glands

that produces lubrication. It is thought to be perhaps analagous to the

prostate gland in men.

WHAT IS FEMALE EJACULATION?

Female ejaculation is the expelling of fluid from or around the urethra. This

fluid is not urine, and is often accompanied by a powerful orgasm. Stimulation

of the G-Spot is thought to potentially cause this.

HOW DO I FIND THE G-SPOT?

Insert one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers 'forward' so that they stroke the anterior wall of the vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of

pressure will tell you if you've got it or not.

DOES EVERYONE HAVE A G-SPOT?

No. Your mileage may vary. Just as some woman find clitoral stimulation more or less pleasurable than others, G-spot response varies from woman to woman, and some may find it unpleasant or simply not special.

HOW DOES ONE STIMULATE THE G-SPOT?

Silly, that's a technique question. The factual stuff is above; anything else

goes to Kama Sutra>.

ALL RIGHT, WHERE EXACTLY IS THE G SPOT?

The Grafenberg Spot lies directly behind the pubic bone within the front wail of

the vagina. You will find this fleshy slice of heaven about halfway between the back of the

pubic bone and the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra (the tube through which she urinates) and near the neck of the bladder, where it connects with the urethra. The size and exact location may vary slightly with each woman. (Imagine a small clock inside the vagina with 12 o'clock pointing towards the navel. In the majority of

women, you will find the G-Spot located between 11 and 1 o'clock.) It lies deep within the vaginal wall, and firm, but controlled, pressure is often needed to reach the G-Spot in its non-stimulated state.

How to Get a Girlfriend

Steps

1. Have good personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get a girl. For the most part, just caring about how you are is enough. Wear clothes that fit, and make sure your body is clean. (Keep clean Teeth, trim nails, Tidy Hair, No Unibrows, etc...)

2. Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives the impression of low confidence. Smiling makes a guy more friendly and welcoming. A good walking style,(straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.

3. Wearing a large amount of cologne is Not a good idea, wearing 2 or more different types of cologne is an even worse idea, and always remember with your smell, a little goes a Long way.

4. Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. Go out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly looking for women immediately lower their value. Go out with your friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a good time. The Internet does not count.

5. Be funny. If you're not naturally funny, don't try too hard around her. Pitch jokes to other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl without humor.

6. "Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl walking by. Toast a woman at the bar. Then go back to having a good time with your friends. In a short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you.

7. Qualify them. Don't be a jerk about it... but in a fun, playful way, make her prove her value to you. Something as simple as "Are you open-minded? Cool, because I like open-minded people."

8. Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women or men who do nothing but talk and never listen can be annoying.)

9. Learn how to flirt. Flirting is an art, and is easily the most important social skill for men to learn. Try taking a comedy class, or talk to her like she's your little sister...but do so with a smile, so she will know you are kidding.

10. Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you something like "Oh, I like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique. Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it.

11. Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with the guy.

12. Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.

13. Don't pretend to be someone you aren't. You may think you will win her over with like mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead.

14. Show your interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is to avoid it from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but you're fun to talk to."

15. Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine."

16. And once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show her you care is to continue to do the little things for her. You still need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.) Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and respect.

Tips

• Body language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key.

• If you are nervous, and going out to meet women, be sure to start talking to people as soon as you reach your destination. Chat up the staff at the door, or the people who let you into the party. Be open from the start.

• Put on great-smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best-selling ones at department stores. Unless, that is, the girls you like tend to be more on the outdoors or tomboy side of things. Some girls detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually become accustomed to the cologne levels in their own scent that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there.

• Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces.

• Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated.

• Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.

• Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.

• Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.

• Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer.

• Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel.

• Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so if you absolutely can't go without saying something everyday, at least correct your grammar. At the very minimum, spell words correctly.

• Don't be afraid to display your affection in public.

• Dress to match, Black and Whites, Browns and Blues, even if they don't say anything, girls notice.

• Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist.

• Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule

• Be Yourself

• If your going to the movies, Get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch.

Warnings

• Do not attempt to stalk the lady! Know when she means no!

• Do not ask out someone too young because they are probably not ready.

• Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out. Unless she likes that, but hey, it's your girl.

• Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude.

• Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility of rejection. No one likes to feel forced into doing something. This should be mutual, OK?

• Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that. (particularly if you have bad breath)

• Don't make disgusting body jokes, ask them their age or weight. Girls hate that.

• Don't make her feel like a sex object instead of a human being, unless you're trying to get a loose girl. Less promiscuous girls are turned off by such patronization and bigotry.